In the run up to the season to be merry, some couples dispair to find sexy christmas gifts, wether it is a Christmas gift for him or a Christmas gift for her. There are some very unique possibilities available out there though for those of you that want to go a little further than most when it comes to sexy Christmas gifts.
Personalised erotica is becoming a really popular treat for special occations says Pauline Andersen, Publisher and owner of Collective Publishing ( http://www.collectivepublishing.co.uk/ ), an independent publishing company based on the English south coast.
“We were initially a little surprised that our personalized erotic book sells pretty evenly through out the year, as we had thought the book would be selling only around Valenties day as sexy valentines day gifts, although with the increased forcus on romance in that month, we do pretty well in the 4 months running up to the 14th of February.”
Personalised erotica, as it states, are stories or in this case a book, where the story or stories are changed according to reader preference. The range of products out there is quite overwhelming but it can be pretty much broken into the expensive commissioned stories written specifically for you and is a one off story exactly to your specification and pre-written stories where elements of the story like names, character features, places, rooms and so on are changed according to your desire when you purchase the story.
You can then either get your story delivered in a digital download file or you can get it as a physical book sent to you.
“Our personalised erotic book is as far as we are aware unique” says Pauline ” as it is based on customising an already published book, “Bettina’s Bed Time Stories”(ISBN 0953529045), and when delivered, the person receiving the sexy gift will not know initially that the erotic book he or she is reading has actually been personalised for them, unless the “giver” tells them.
I’m sure you can imagine what it is like to read a book when you begin to notice that one of the characters has your looks, your name and even live in your town. It’s like watching a film only to realise it is taking place in your home town.
The reason why a personalised erotic book would be such a great sexy Christmas gift is that it will give whoever you are giving it to, an even warmer glow when they realise the steamy book is about them!

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I just want to get some pointers out here. I’m not going to pre-judge because I will tell you that I’m sure the book is excellent for what it is. They are even going to have a movie made about it.
My question is this:
What about the remaining suffering millions of American men who AREN’T ‘geeks’ or who DON’T want to devote much of their life to becoming a PUA (pick up artist) or seducer??!
It’s great it’s got all this buzz and the community is thriving, but most American men although a little curious, don’t even have the time to devote themselves to it. Furthermore, we find that most of those guys do seem a little geeky and that’s too much hardcoreness for most men to accept to ‘enter’ that realm despite the advantages that might come with their techniques.
It’s true, these guys are great at what they do. They have learned to develop a steel heart to get out there, face rejection and develop their social persona attack skills. I’m not denying that what they do doesn’t work. It works very well and I can explain why.
But it still leaves independent, beautiful, American women wondering, where have all the ‘real men’ gone?
The issue still remains DESPITE whatever buzz this book may get, the main social dilemma will remain. Even if they get Jack Black to play the main part in a movie, women will still be wondering ‘where have all the real men gone’?
And American guys will still be confused when it comes to women (unless they are in the place where you are right now).
The book is a study of the thriving ‘pick up’ culture which has a growing following. I know that there are great stories in there and when it comes down to it…average or less than average guys DO now have a chance with the hottest women and they’re using ‘pick up’ as that leverage because our women are in a position to settle for less even though these men don’t meet their social persona approval.
The PUA’s are touching threads which she may or may not react to depending on their level of game. To be a successful PUA you really have to develop your ’skills’ and know a lot of comebacks, etc. Yes, it works if it means ‘bedding women’. Like I said, I’m not denying that. But the entire community and ‘The Game’ itself is missing the whole natural paradigm or perspective.
What they have developed are systems and formulas to work with and ‘against’ the forced reality that we live in today and her socially adeptable social persona. Playing ‘the game’ forces a woman to judge you on her social persona and approval of you unless they are really good (then she knows she’s probably getting tricked or just wants to sleep with a guy anyways).
The whole system (although sometimes effective) is unstable because it ‘accepts’ the reality of a woman’s instability as the foundational perceptional framework while there is a deeper part of her that they are missing.
I’ve personally known a ’sarge’ PUA who has slept with hundreds of women (at least). Hey, it works when you’re like that or mold your personality to be like that (more hard-edged, negging and jerky).
But what about the rest of the American guys who don’t want to ‘neg’ (give a hard-edge comeback the neutralizes her drama unto your control) strippers (hey, it’s fun though)? It’s not emotionally healthy unless your character is ‘above it all’. You have to understand women we’re dealing with, they WILL respond to an effective PUA IF the guy can have his game just right.
Unfortunately some of the most psychologically messed up women will respond the best to these types of guys (but some are damn hot). And sex = sex. But like I said, what about the more ‘real’, ‘normal’, stable guys? What about the guys that are a great catch in their own right? Is it fair that PUA’s or bad boys seemingly get all the women?
Well, first of all they don’t. They have to develop their game to fight against the ‘forced reality’ and the uglier they are, the stronger game they must have in order to win her temporary approval.
Playing this level of game is NOT the answer for most American men. Men who have healthy, interesting, lifestyles who are still confused when it comes to dealing with women. It takes too much time, study and rejection-proofing. The answer is not in ‘the game’ unless a man wants to divulge into a subculture of developing a bulletproof social persona himself to match a woman’s; the answer lies in something that not even Neil Strauss can see. Nor can any of the pick up artists (until they meet me).
The answer is even FURTHER away in relationship coaches and so called ‘dating experts’ (I term a byproduct of our 50/50 society). 95% of what you read is further away from being successful with women than the seducers and PUA’s. But there’s something that EVERYONE is missing.
There’s something within a woman that ‘knows’ what’s right with attraction and she’s so repressed because she can’t find any men like this and she keeps attracting these PUA’s or ‘jerks’. Little does she know her social persona is derived from this ‘forced reality’ I speak of yet this persona is not congruent with her inner biological attraction mechanism which she cannot describe.
What’s the answer? Basically, erase Tammy Faye Bakker’s makeup off of our women to see their true self and never let your perception of their beauty get in your way of living your reality. Men are at the top of the food chain (yes above women) for a reason and women biologically KNOW to respond to a man who is being a real man. I teach you to deal with the other aspects.
If you want more women than you can handle, you don’t have to study PUA or even read ‘The Game’ though it will be an entertaining insight, you have to get your entire reality aligned to the basics of biological attraction. A woman KNOWS when a man is throwing ‘game at her’.
If you’re a guy who doesn’t want to study PUA just in order to get laid, I’ve got good news for you and it’s much closer to what women want. Get my book, ‘Mens Guide to Women’ TODAY and start changing your life. It IS the answer for you and millions of American men. I truly believe that this book will mean more to you than any study of PUA in it’s entirety, as well as change your entire outlook on life to one of natural, relieving congruency.
You can be one of the FEW men in America that REALLY gets it and women may almost get desperate to be around you. Why? Because that’s the way it’s supposed to be. You are the one with choice, it is your inheritance and covers 95% of what matters while the surface stuff is the other 5%.
Underneath it ALL is what works best with women and you will have the knowledge and they will LOVE you for it and be debating whether to brag about you to their friends or not because they might want to steal you.

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